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Divorce Lawyers

We offer you fixed guaranteed fees!
No hidden extras or hourly rates

If you are divorcing someone : £695 plus VAT and Court fees of £385, total £1119 (most couples are made to pay half each)

If someone is divorcing you : £295 inc VAT

Living Together Agreement £250 including VAT

Parental Responsibility agreement – £125 including VAT

Pre-Nuptial Agreement – £295 including VAT

Post-Nuptial Agreement – £295 including VAT

Pre-Cip Agreement : £295 including VAT

Post-Cip Agreement : £295 including VAT

Change of Name: £195 including VAT

Protecting the family home if your spouses sole name : £195 including VAT

Separation Agreement – £295 including VAT

Application for contact, residence order, parental responsibility, specific issue : £295 including VAT

Application for attachment of earnings, fixed fee of £250 including VAT

Application for financial settlement, lump sum, family home, maintenance (Form A): £195 including VAT

Guaranteed fees includes all required documents. Advice from experienced, approachable Divorce and Family Lawyers. Access to your Lawyer by email and direct dial telephone, or at meetings as you prefer. A Lawyer who explains everything, and uses clear plain English and a Skype or other conference call is included.

Consult the experts. For more information or a free legal opinion telephone 020-7381-8111 (24 hour service) or email law@rhplaw.co.uk.

Divorce

Our family Lawyers work with you to achieve a result which is favourable for you and all the family, especially through times which may seem difficult and emotionally stressful.

Whether your spouse has petitioned for divorce against you or whether you would like to petition for divorce yourself, our experienced family solicitors can:

  • handle the entire divorce procedure for you;
  • help you to reach a legally binding settlement over finances, property and arrangements for children
  • make arrangements for your children and their future

For a competitive fee of:

Divorce fixed fee starting from £675 plus VAT & disbursements

If it’s advice on civil partnerships, injunctions or matters concerning children our team are here to help. We listen to your needs and offer jargon-free advice in a friendly environment.

Further still with more couples deciding to co-habit rather than get married or enter into a civil partnership it is essential to know what your rights are. For instance making a Will may provide security for both parties, or if you are buying a property together, understanding the issues involved in the event of a breakdown of the relationship. What’s more whether entering in to a co-habitation agreement would be beneficial for you and your family.

Consult the experts. For more information or a free legal opinion telephone 020-7381-8111 (24 hour service) or email law@rhplaw.co.uk.

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Divorce Lawyers

We offer the highest quality of legal help with all matters relating to family law such as divorce, separation, cohabitation, child residence and contact, pre-nuptial agreements, civil partnerships, and wills, as well as disputes over property, including pet custody disputes, such as cats, dogs and horses.

Our legal consultants, including Rodney Hylton-Potts and Maud Bergvelt guarantee a fast and efficient service. Our reputation for tough negotiating skills, good judgment and care and attention are second to none. We are committed to the highest levels of client satisfaction, and aim to achieve fair divorce settlements, without the stress and expense of contested Court proceedings.

Getting Divorced? Need a good divorce lawyer in London?

We can get you divorced within 14 weeks for £675 plus VAT and the Court fees of £385, Total £1195. Most couples pay half each.

Our areas of expertise include:

  • Contact with children
  • Residence Orders
  • Injunctions
  • “Freezing Orders”
  • Shared Residence
  • Parental Responsibility
  • Separation agreements
  • Cohabitation agreements
  • Pre-nuptial agreements
  • Post-nuptial agreement
  • Disputes between unmarried couples
  • Civil partnerships
  • Form E (the legal equivalent of a dentist’s root canal treatment – but not with us)
  • Pensions
  • Child Abduction
  • International family law
  • Families need Fathers
  • Disputes over pets.
  • CSA
  • Protecting the family home

Your can find a Divorce Petition here for you to download.

Street Fighting Divorce Lawyers London

We are street fighters in the real world where children are often used as pawns, and money and children unfortunately do mix. We understand the use of offshore companies, credit card abuse, nominee directors, the taping of calls and steaming open of post. We know the impact that violence, drugs,  alcohol or gambling addiction can have upon a family and how this affects relationships. We understand how immigration status can impact, and advise on Wills and preserving family assets.

We can be utterly tough (Rodney Hylton-Potts’s nickname is Rottweiler”) or charming and “touchy-feely”, depending on what is best for the client. Click on Rodney’s screen on the home page to hear more.

Parenting Plan

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The Felt Tip Pen

We write on the file in a felt tip pen what the client wants, and go out to get it for them.

We tick off the goals, one by one, as we achieve them.

We offer fixed fees where possible, and often keep costs down by working with the client as a team dividing the legwork. That way we get cases to court amazingly cheaply.

Court Appearances

We take you through the strength and weaknesses of your case to prepare you for the court hearing. We will guide you and be by your side every step of the way, and will assist you to give your evidence clearly and effectively.

We even advise you on what to wear in Court.

We work with tough, approachable, businesslike barristers, providing excellent value for money, goals we ourselves emulate” – Rodney Hylton-Potts

More Information on divorce lawyers in London

For more information or free legal advice telephone 020-7381-8111 (24 hour service) or email law@rhplaw.co.uk or fill out our contact form.

We offer a fast and efficient service and are cheaper and better than solicitors always committed to a high level of client satisfaction.

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Help with Child Contact

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We take this issue very seriously, and will fight very hard to enable a father to see his children.

Rodney Hylton-Potts has huge experience in this area and has been divorced twice (with 5 children himself) , so he knows how you feel. We are good to have on your side.

He says:  “Never, never, never give up on your children”.

Read more about the CSA and what they could take here

Rodney is one of the best lawyers in London to help with contact. Better faster and cheaper than any solicitor.

Anti-Shared Parenting Arguments and Rebuttals

Assertion

“Children do not like to have two homes”

We are experts at combatting parental alienation syndrome (PAS).

Parental Alienation – my experience both as a lawyer and as a therapist (click here to download)

Rebuttal

What is best for children is to have both parents raising them in one happy united home, but if that is not possible, it is better for them to have two homes, than to lose a loved and loving parent.

A majority of children whose separated parents raise them equally are positive about it.

For contact problems, speak to the experts. For more information or a free legal opinion telephone 020-7381-8111 (24 hour service) or email law@rhplaw.co.uk.

Pre-nuptial Agreements

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Cohabitation

We can avoid rows by drafting a living-together agreement.

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Pre-nuptial agreement or pre-civ Agreements

They work
The Supreme Court of Appeal has decided that a pre-nuptial agreement will be a very strong factor in a divorce settlement, if it is carefully drafted with proper safeguards, to avoid the stress and expense of a fully contested financial divorce battle.

(Radmacher case)

We can draft an agreement for you £240 inc VAT including all advice. Some solicitors charge £5000 – why pay more?

Custody of Pets

View our 8 step guide to winning custody of your beloved pets here

If you wish to go ahead please contact Rodney by phone on 020 7381 8111 or email law@rhplaw.co.uk

Child Support with both parents in UK

This is dealt with by a government agency not the court although it can intervene with “topping up” if the family is wealthy.

The CSA uses information from both parents to decide if someone has to pay child maintenance and to work out the amount of maintenance that should be paid. They may also use information from other sources, including the non-resident parent’s employer or HM Revenue & Customs (HMRC).

The CSA work out child maintenance by applying one of four rates to the non-resident parent’s income. Income is earnings, money from an occupational or personal pension, and tax credits. They use the amount of income left after things like income tax, National Insurance and any money paid into a pension scheme have been taken off.

The child maintenance calculator will provide you with a rough guide to how much child maintenance you may be asked to pay or might expect to receive based on the rules for the current scheme.

Click here to calculate your child maintenance payments

CSA – www.csa.gov.uk – phone 0845 713 4000

The maximum income on which the CSA payments are calculated is £2,000 per week.

It is calculated on the basis of net weekly income;

15% for 1 child
20% for 2 children
25% for 3 children or more

Net income is net of tax, NI and Pension contributions.

Roughly speaking this come to a maximum of;

£ 300/week for 1 child

£ 400/week for 2 children

£500/week for 3 children

There are deductions from this if a paying parent has other children in his/her care.

There are also deductions where the child being supported spends more than 51 nights a year with the paying parent.

When the maximum figure is reached, the court has jurisdiction in respect of top-up maintenance for higher earners.

High earner is defined as anyone earning more than £2000 net per week (£104,000 p.a.)

For further advice on Child Support and the legal world it lives in, call 0207 381 8111 for free and impartial advice off our well informed legal team.

Shared Residence Orders

For some time, Shared Residence Orders (SRO) were rare, as it was considered they would only work in situations of close co-operation between the parents.

This has changed and now they are being granted in situations of bitter conflict.

An SRO has been granted to a man who was not the natural father even though the children only spend alternate weekends with him (which is the usual regime).

Judges are using these orders to send a strong message to both parents, that they are equal in the eyes of the law, and that overriding concern is the best interest of the children.

Parental responsibility.(PR)

What is it? Does the father need it? If so, how does he get it.

Unmarried Fathers can acquire parental responsibility in any of the following ways:

(a) By jointly registering the child’s birth with the mother (for births registered after 1 December 2003) you will automatically gain parental responsibility (i.e. there will be no separate official document stating that you have PR).

It is the date of registration, not the date of birth which is important in determining whether the father has parental responsibility.

(b) By re-registering the birth for pre December 2003 registrations to add the father’s details you will automatically gain parental responsibility.

You would either need the mother to attend with you or provide a formal declaration of agreement that your name is to be added to the birth record.

NB: the birth can only be re-registered if the father’s name was omitted from the original registration. If it is already there, you cannot re-register, and therefore you cannot gain parental responsibility by this means.

(c) By subsequently marrying the mother of the child you automatically gain PR.

(d) By obtaining a residence order from the court (PR is a ‘by-product’ of the residence order) you will automatically acquire parental responsibility, although in this form PR will terminate when the resident order ends (usually age 16).

(e) A birth parent can sign a parental responsibility agreement on form C(PRA1) according to the Children Act 1989. This document itself will signify that you have parental responsibility for the child).

(f) A step-parent’s PR agreement can be made by consent with all those already having PR for the child on form C(PRA2) according to the Children & Adoption Act 2002.

(g) By obtaining a parental responsibility order from the court.

(h) By obtaining an adoption order from the court.

Only with (d), (e), (f), (g) and (h) will you obtain a document that explicitly states that the father has parental responsibility for the child. With the other means of obtaining parental responsibility there will be no separate documentation confirming parental responsibility, the documentation of the status acquired (marriage, child’s birth
certificate, etc.) being themselves evidence of parental responsibility.

Consult the experts. For more information or a free legal opinion telephone 020-7381-8111 (24 hour service) or email law@rhplaw.co.uk.

CHILD ABDUCTION

A rising number of international marriages and a global mobility of the workforce within the EU and beyond has led to a sharp rise in international child abduction cases.

Many countries are within the Hague Convention the principles of that Convention are not accepted in much of the Islamic world, where the result may clash with religion-based law.

Also many Asian and African Countries are not parties.

If therefore a child is abducted into one of those non-Convention countries proceedings have to be taken in the Court of that country to get the child back.

If a child is taken to a Convention country different rules apply. The underlying principle is that the Courts of the country where the child was last habitually resident is the proper place for proceedings.

There the parents’ claim is brought in the UK and notified to the Child Abduction Unit to the country where the child is, to show cause why there should not be an automatic return to the UK. The Child Abduction Unit has a questionnaire on its website.

Specialist Lawyers should be consulted without delay.

We can get you an injunction and all ports alerts the same day.

Rodney Hylton-Potts has 25 years experience in this field. Consult the Experts 24 hour helpline and e-mail service.

We are experts in child abduction – incredibly fast service, total focus, reasonable fees, great success rates.

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Divorce after sale service

On a lighter note, once a year we have a get together/supper for all the clients we have got divorced that year.

We have had many hilarious evenings, but also found that there is a lot of support for each other, and sometimes a new romance!

The ladies often have new, glamorous, blonde hairstyles, and their own Mercedes parked outside. Sometimes the ex husbands have nicked themselves shaving, have a grubby collar and perhaps drink a little too much!

By and large when taken out of the divorce fighting arena, they are all, invariably, very nice people, and good parents and relieved and supported to see that other people also went through the mill.

It puts things in perspective.

Come to the experts. For more information or a free legal opinion telephone 020-7381-8111 (24 hour service) or email law@rhplaw.co.uk.

Hit Him hard while guilt is high

A philandering husband goes off with his secretary. He then regrets it, feels guilty, but the wife will not take him back.

Hit him hard while the guilt is high.

Do not get mad, ladies, get even. Hit him in the pocket and get him to agree an excellent settlement while guilt runs high. It will not last for ever.

Come to the experts. For more information or a free legal opinion telephone 020-7381-8111 (24 hour service) or email law@rhplaw.co.uk.

Conduct in Divorce

Generally the Judge does not give a hoots who divorces whom or on what grounds. He does not care who slept with who, got drunk, or behaved unreasonably.
He does not care if a man puts work before his family, leading to a divorce breakdown. He does not care if the wife has ten lovers. You may care. The judge does not: Passionately.

None of this is relevant to the division of family assets, so he does not want to know, unless the conduct is “gross and obvious”. These are the more serious cases such as:

  • Child Abuse
  • Adultery in the matrimonial bed
  • Serious violence involving breaking bones

Then the Judge will take conduct into account and punish the guilty party.

Raising the issue of conduct in a battle over money is an important one and can have huge cost implications.

Come to the experts. For more information or a free legal opinion telephone 020-7381-8111 (24 hour service) or email law@rhplaw.co.uk.

Bitterness in Divorce

Wives may get what appear to husbands to get too much money in a divorce battle, but sometimes the one thing that infuriates them is that their (often older) husband can still “pull” and attract younger women, whereas they have to settle often for a new partner who is older than they are, and probably divorced and down at heel himself.

Some ladies turn to “toy boys”.

This basic fact on the real world causes much bitterness.

Consult the experts as to how this impacts on tactics.

Come to the experts. For more information or a free legal opinion telephone 020-7381-8111 (24 hour service) or email law@rhplaw.co.uk.

Expat/Non-UK Divorces

We can advise you on obtaining or dealing with a UK divorce, if you are living abroad.
Also if you have been served with papers from an overseas jurisdiction, including the United States.
The language of the documents can be confusing, and sometimes not even in English, we can help you through the minefield quickly and cheaply.

Fixed fees generally apply. £290 inc VAT if someone is divorcing you in an overseas jurisdiction.

Come to the experts. For more information or a free legal opinion telephone 020-7381-8111 (24 hour service) or email law@rhplaw.co.uk.

Have a Second Bite in London

If you have been divorced abroad and received a poor settlement, e.g. in the Middle East, Nigeria, or another jurisdiction dominated by men, consider filing a financial claim in London.

The Supreme Court has ruled that it is lawful to top up awards made abroad, so if you were disappointed with your first bite at the cherry contact the experts.

For more information or a free legal opinion telephone 020-7381-8111 (24 hour service) or email law@rhplaw.co.uk.

How to get value for money from your advisers

Solicitors are trained, expensive professionals. They are not emotional props, or your friends.

“If you want a friend, buy a dog”.

Take Domestic Violence

The husband hits the wife. She phones her solicitor and spends 30 minutes recounting her tales of woe. This phone call will costs her £200 + VAT or more, and on top of that she still has the bruises and the humiliation. Instead she should:

  1. As soon as she is able after the attack, get photographs taken by a relative or friend and have 5 colour prints made, which should be signed and dated on the back by the friend, or downloaded and emailed to herself and her lawyer.
  2. Immediately write a dispassionate account of the incident and what led up to it, in chronological order.
  3. Visit her Doctor to ask him to examine her and made a note of her injuries and her account of what happened. Explain to the doctor he or she could be asked to provide a medical report later for use by her legal team.
  4. Telephone the police to ask then to note her complaint and possibly to proceed further. Note the crime reference number.
  5. Then telephone her solicitor to brief him about what happened.

She now has the evidence in the bag to proceed to obtain a Court Injunction, so that if the husband repeats his conduct, she can apply to commit him to prison for contempt of court. This usually does the trick.

Keeping a chronology

Keep a diary of all events and incidents you think could be relevant on a chronology.
Make notes especially of acts of violence or those relating to money or the children.
The fact that you write up your diary promptly of itself makes it more likely that the Judge will believe what you write

We can provide you with a template for a chronology both in Word and Excel free of charge.

Come to the experts. For more information or a free legal opinion telephone 020-7381-8111 (24 hour service) or emaillaw@rhplaw.co.uk.

Fathers can win residence orders

Recent decisions show that the courts are increasingly prepared to transfer residence to the father where mothers repeatedly block contact arrangements.

High-profile protests by pressure groups such as Fathers 4 Justice have fostered the perception that fathers face unfair treatment from the courts, when it comes to recognition of their role in their children’s lives. Fathers face considerable difficulties when it comes to enforcing orders for contact with their children, in the face of mothers who are determined to obstruct those orders.

However, the family courts are becoming increasingly unwilling to tolerate such behaviour and there are provisions available to enforce contact orders (including community service penalties).

A number of reported decisions show that the courts are also willing to take the ultimate step to ensure children do not lose their relationship with their fathers, and will transfer residence between parents where absolutely necessary.

These decisions may compel obstructive mothers to encourage the relationship between father and child and, perhaps, to recognise that their behaviour can ultimately result in their ‘losing’ their child.

We advise on leave/permission to remove children from the jurisdiction.

Transferring residence

On 4 January 2010, in the Family Division of the High Court, His Honour Judge Bellamy ordered that a child (S), aged 11, who had always lived with his mother, should now live with his father.

The parents separated in September 1997 and their son, S, was born in March 1998. The father made his first contact application in June 1999, and more than ten years of litigation followed.

S had not had any contact with his father since February 2006, almost four years before the final hearing before HHJ Bellamy, and there had been a failed contact order providing for S to spend time with his half-siblings in July 2009.

Assessing wishes and feelings

The judge found that S had become completely alienated from his father, and had no wish to see his him, let alone go and live with him.

However, expert evidence was provided to the court by a consultant adult psychiatrist who said that “the child’s expressed wishes and feelings are irrational and should form no part in the court’s decision making”.

The judge said that it would be wrong for a court to ignore a child’s true wishes and feelings, as this would be contrary to existing case law as well as both the welfare checklist and the United Nations Conventions of the Rights of Child. However, he went on to say that S’s expressed wishes and feelings needed to be assessed in the light of his age and understanding, and that, when considering the weight which should be attached to them, the impact of alienation and the fact that S’s expressed wishes and feelings might not be his true wishes and feelings should be taken into account.

The judge found that the mother had opposed and undermined contact between S and his father, but the judgment makes clear that she had been a good mother in most other respects.

HHJ Bellamy had an extremely difficult task in balancing all the competing factors, and, following a detailed analysis, concluded that “traumatic though it may be in the short term, it is in the best interests of S’s long-term welfare for him now to live with his father”.

Shared residence

There has been an increasing trend for fathers to seek orders for shared residence rather than contact, and such orders are increasingly becoming the norm in the Principal Registry of the Family Division in London, regardless of whether a child’s time is shared equally between parents.

Shared residence orders are now commonly made in cases where the court takes the view that the label of shared residence is a useful tool to reinforce to both parents that they have equal rights, responsibilities and duties in relation to their children and are of equal status.

A gap in the Children and Adoption Act 2006 is that the enforcement provisions are not available to the court to order against an obstructive mother where a shared residence order has been made; the new enforcement provisions are only available to enforce contact orders.

To ensure the child has a continuing relationship with both parents, in the context of a shared residence order, the court must fall back on the established enforcement methods, including the ultimate step of transferring residence where one parent is persistently obstructing the child’s relationship with the other parent – as in the case of Re S.

So fathers- never never never give up on your children- contact the expert
- For more information or a free legal opinion telephone 020-7381-8111 (24 hour service) or emaillaw@rhplaw.co.uk.

Mother’s tactics

Well-educated mothers are often the worst at legal war over their children after separation.

These mothers have no idea how much damage they inflict on their children with protracted custody battles and personal attacks on the father.

Children are routinely used as the battlefield and ammunition for mothers to hammer out their own personal disputes.

Half divorcing couples have at least one child aged under 16. Up to 20,000 parents go to court each year to resolve their child contact disputes each year.

The family courts have witnessed some particularly protracted cases lasting for many years, with contact orders repeatedly broken, often by embittered mothers seeking to punish their former partner.

Often the mother, who finds herself caring for the children, is able to use her power over them to deny the father contact.

More rights for fathers are needed, with many men far more closely involved in the day-to-day care of their children. The greater role of fathers is not recognized by the courts when a couple splits up.

There is nothing worse, for most children, than for their parents to denigrate each other. If a child’s mother makes it clear to the child that his or her father is worthless, the child’s sense of self-worth can be irredeemably damaged. Mothers simply do not realise the damage they do to their children by the battles they wage over them, or perhaps they do not care.

What is needed is a presumption of “shared residence” for the children when a couple separate, where the young people live with either parent for half the time.

Rich ex-wives are sent packing by divorce judges

Senior judges are taking a tough line with former wives of millionaires who return to court seeking to reopen divorce settlements.

Judges have become concerned that the decisions of High Court, have led to London being the divorce capital of the world.

Judges have thrown out attempts by former wives to challenge the terms of their divorce awards. In the latest, the former wife of the Conservative Party grandee Sir Paul Judge failed to amend a £6.6 million divorce settlement that she received nearly ten years ago.

In another case, a wife who was awarded £7.5 million unsuccessfully tried to challenge the settlement after she claimed that the judge had wrongly calculated the division of the couple’s assets. One senior appeal judge said that neither “is ever going to experience any financial want or need”.

In another case involving a Russian couple, the same judge lamented the amount of judicial time devoted to “wasteful” litigation between super-rich couples who wanted to get divorced in London but had only a “slender connection” with the capital.

The Court of Appeal upheld a divorce that had been granted in Moscow to the Russian Oligarch Ilya Golubovich, in spite of his wife’s desire to be divorced in London.

Involved in making or defending a financial claim in a divorce case?

Consult the experts – For more information or a free legal opinion telephone 020-7381-8111 (24 hour service) or email law@rhplaw.co.uk.

Judges rule divorcing wives can no longer turn detective on spouse’s finances

DIY detective work by divorcing couples to expose a spouse’s hidden assets was declared unlawful in a landmark ruling, ending decades of traditional tactics in marriage disputes.

Litigants will no longer be able secretly to seize papers or documents that they find lying around or access e-mails after the Court of Appeal held that this could breach a person’s rights of confidence and might also be a crime.

A wife had won the right to use 20,000 documents removed from the husband’s computer, but the Court of Appeal disagreed and ordered the return of the material.

If the wife was allowed to keep the documents, it “would give her access to material which was confidential to Mr Imerman and had been unlawfully taken from him’.

The judges said that there was “no real doubt” that Mr Imerman’s rights of confidence had been breached and ordered that files of documents and all copies being held by the wife’s solicitors be handed over to the husband’s solicitors.

Husband won an injunction restraining the wife or her lawyers, for the time being, “from using any of the information they have obtained through reading the files”.

The wife is prohibited from saying what her husband claims he is worth, compared with what is in the public domain.

We at Hylton-Potts have a strategy for overcoming this difficulty, legally and effectively, and are particularly good at unearthing undisclosed assets.

If you want advice on a matrimonial money battle, or disclosure of documents, contact the experts – For more information or a free legal opinion telephone 020-7381-8111 (24 hour service) or email law@rhplaw.co.uk.

Collaborative Law

This process is designed to resolve disputes without going to court. Here at Hylton-Potts we are experts in the techniques, and offer them as a service to our clients.

We are better than Collaborative Law Solicitors

The emphasis is very much on helping clients find a solution for the best of the family as a whole and that will work for them in future.

If the collaborative approach interests you contact Hylton-Potts the experts – For more information or a free legal opinion telephone 020-7381-8111 (24 hour service) or email law@rhplaw.co.uk.

Keeping a Chronology of Important Dates

In any dispute, a good tactic is to prepare and keep up-to-date chronology of important dates, events and cross-reference in the documents.

We can e-mail you a template free of charge, in word or excel.

Later a Judge might say “How do I know this is accurate?”. You reply that on legal advice you recorded the event on your computer, in the spreadsheet, that very same day.

This works.

For more information or a free legal opinion telephone 020-7381-8111 (24 hour service) or email law@rhplaw.co.uk.

Can I get a divorce, or dissolve my civil partnership in the UK?

English procedure can be summarized as follows.

A person has jurisdiction to apply for a divorce in England and Wales in any of the following circumstances;

  1. Both parties are habitually resident in England and Wales at the time the divorce proceedings are started.
  2. Both parties were last habitually resident in England and Wales and one of the parties still resides there at the time the divorce proceedings are started.
  3. The respondent is habitually resident in England and Wales at the time the divorce proceedings are started.
  4. The petitioner has been habitually resident in England and Wales for the 12 months before the divorce proceedings are started.
  5. The petitioner is domiciled in England and Wales and has been habitually resident there for six months before the divorce proceedings are started.
  6. Both of the parties are domiciled in England and Wales at the time the divorce proceedings are started.
  7. The petitioner or the respondent are domiciled in England and Wales at the time the divorce proceedings are started, and no other court of a “contracting state” to the European Convention known as Brussels II (see Brussels II) has jurisdiction.

If a person is able to satisfy one of the above categories, then there will be jurisdiction in England and Wales for that person to start divorce proceedings.

If you are in doubt about whether you can get divorced or other civil partnership dissolution in the UK, consult the experts -
For more information or a free legal opinion telephone 020-7381-8111 (24 hour service) or email law@rhplaw.co.uk.

Pet Custody – The Law

If a couple, (husband or wife or civil partners,) break up, the matrimonial Judge has a wide discretion to divide assets and make orders. This could include ownership of a pet, and with whom that pet should live, and visitation rights.

If children are involved, often their wishes will tip the scales, and an order could be made for example giving the absent parent visitation rights to the pet when seeing the children.

If the couple, however are not married the Judge’s powers are much reduced and could be limited just declaring ownership. Obviously if a pet is bought jointly it cannot be sawn in half.

The moral of the tale

In all cases, especially where there is no marriage or civil partnership, an agreement to who would have the pet, and on what terms, on separation is vital to avoid an expensive battle.

Love, ownership, pride and a way of punishing the other party can result in heartbreaking decisions affecting children.

We at Hylton Potts are experts and can draft you a separation agreement for a fixed fee of £200 plus VAT.

How more and more divorcing couples are going to war over their pets – Click to Read

Contact the experts – For more information or a free legal opinion telephone 020-7381-8111 (24 hour service) or email law@rhplaw.co.uk.

Setting aside a financial settlement

If one party to a financial settlement, including a court order, lied or misled the court it can be
set aside, and we can help. Consult the experts – For more information or a free legal opinion telephone 020-7381-8111 (24 hour service) or email law@rhplaw.co.uk.

Contempt of Court – HOW TO GET EVEN IF YOUR OPPONENT LIES

Anyone who has lost, or even won, a matrimonial or litigation case because the opponent has lied, carries a sense of grievance. The police do not want to know. The judge goes on to the next case, but you know your opponent lied and want to prove it.

We can help you get even legally and cost effectively.

Proceedings for contempt of court is the answer.

Proceedings for contempt of court may be brought against a person if he make a false statement in a document verified by a statement of truth, or gives dishonest oral evidence

Contempt proceedings can only be dealt with in the High Court. Proceedings that are being dealt with in the Principal Registry or a county court must therefore be transferred, but this can be done quickly and cheaply.

To be successful in contempt of court proceedings, the dishonest statement must be obvious. It must be proved to the criminal standard of proof, beyond reasonable doubt, and the victim has to move quickly.

If the witness is found to be in contempt of court, he could face up to two years imprisonment or an unlimited fine.

This is a really useful weapon.

To learn more consult the experts – For more information or a free legal opinion telephone 020-7381-8111 (24 hour service) or email law@rhplaw.co.uk.

Prenuptial agreements

Q&A

What is a prenuptial agreement?

A contract made between a couple before marriage (although post-nups can also be made at a later stage) which says who will get what if they split up.

Are they only for the rich?

No, because even an asset like a flat, may be worth protecting.

What do they cost?

In London a family solicitor would charge £5,000 to £7,000 for a standard pre-nup, although with complex assets the fee could be much higher. Do not be ripped off. We at Hylton-Potts charge £200 + VAT and Yes, they are just as good and effective. We achieve this highly competitive fee by working with you on the document as a team. For example, you do not need a lawyer to list your assets.

Are they now legally binding?

They will be followed if they have been freely entered into, with full disclosure of assets and the couple had separate legal advice.

Decisive weight” will be given to the agreement, and couples can now decide in the best of times what the outcome would be in the worst of times.

Whilst a judge will depart from the agreement to the extent necessary to cater for the needs of the children, the parties will be held to the agreement once the children’s needs are catered for.

Courts will not follow a contract that is not flexible enough to provide for a spouse who looks after children.

This could be translated into a situation where a spouse, typically the wife, keeps the use of a house until the children leave college, but not have a meal ticket for life.

What will lawyers want to know?

Details of all the assets and how children would be financially provided for. Lawyers suggest that they are signed no less than 21 days before the day of the wedding or it could be argued that they were drawn up under pressure.

What about civil partnerships?

Pre-nups and Post-nups apply to them also.

Post-nups

These are signed on a change of circumstances such as the birth of a child, or on a party receiving an inheritance. The same fixed fee applies as above- £240 inc VAT.


To learn more consult the experts – For more information or a free legal opinion telephone 020-7381-8111 (24 hour service) or email law@rhplaw.co.uk.

Legal Aid

We specialise in helping people who cannot get Legal Aid, or where none is available.

Legal aid solicitors are usually free. They are often dedicated and compassionate, but quite clueless and inexperienced, and just sit there, adding no value.

Whether you come to us or not, what you probably need somebody who is a specialist, and very streetwise.

It is like the difference between a Harley Street specialist and the local crowded GP’s surgery. The prisons are full of people on legal aid.

Also increasingly Legal Aid has been withdrawn from key areas, and our fixed fee, no nonsense, no bullshit approach may appeal to you.

We are better and cheaper than Solicitors.

If you think we might be the Lawyers for you please contact us – For more information or a free legal opinion telephone 020-7381-8111 (24 hour service) or email law@rhplaw.co.uk.

All our services apply to civil partnerships as to heterosexual couples.

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We advise on leave/permission to remove children from the jurisdiction.

Applications to remove a child from the jurisdiction

Often the mother’s application will succeed provided there are reasonable and well thought through proposals.

With expert legal help, however, a Judge will often impose vital conditions such as:

1. Arrangements for contact.
2. A “mirror” order for contact in the foreign country.
3. School enrolment.
4. Funding for education.
5. Cessation of the mother’s periodical payments.
6. Travel costs.

The case of Re AR (A Child: Relocation) 2010, gives hope to fathers emphasising the right of the child when growing up to have a meaningful participation by both parents in his upbringing.

To learn more consult the experts – For more information or a free legal opinion telephone 020-7381-8111 (24 hour service) or email law@rhplaw.co.uk.

LEAVE TO REMOVE A CHILD FROM THE JURISDICTION

The family courts are beginning to adopt a more child-centric approach

It used to be widely believed that the primary carer, usually the mother, who sought leave to remove her children permanently from the jurisdiction would succeed providing her plans were coherent and sensible.

Payne v Payne [2001] EWCA Civ 166 is still classed as the leading authority on relocation cases. It involved the Court of Appeal reviewing a long line of authority going back more than 30 years to the case of Poel v Poel [1970]

Before Payne, the guiding principle was based upon a presumption in favour of granting a reasonable and properly thought out application. Payne considered this presumption and established a new procedure for relocation cases.

The father in the case was British and the mother was a New Zealand citizen. She applied for leave to remove their four-year-old daughter to New Zealand. At first instance, Judge Langan allowed her application on the basis that the relocation would make her happier, which in turn would be in the child’s best interests.

The father unsuccessfully appealed to the Court of Appeal, and the judgment of Dame Elizabeth Butler-Sloss sets out what was the accepted approach to relocation applications: “There is no presumption in favour of the applicant, but reasonable proposals made by the applicant parent, the refusal of which would have adverse consequences upon the stability of the new family and therefore an adverse effect upon the welfare of the child, continued to be a factor of great weight.”

New approach

While the judgment of Butler-Sloss is most quoted, Thorpe LJ made it clear that he was keen to guard against the risk of creating a presumption that an applicant’s proposals are compatible with the child’s welfare and suggested the court adopt the following approach as a prelude to conclusion.
First, is the mother’s application genuine in the sense that it is “not motivated by some selfish desire to exclude the father from the child’s life”? If so, is the mother’s application realistic, that is, “founded on practical proposals” which have been “well researched and investigated”? Thorpe LJ said that, if neither of these hurdles are passed, “refusal will inevitably follow”.

But if the above is satisfied then, second, the court should carefully appraise the father’s opposition and question whether it is “motivated by genuine concern for the future of the child’s welfare” or whether it is “driven by some ulterior motive”.

Third, the court should look at the extent of the detriment to the father if the application is granted and offset this against the extension of the child’s relationships with the maternal family and homeland. The court should question “the impact on the mother, either as a single parent or as a new wife, of a refusal of her realistic proposal”. The outcome of the second and third questions must then be brought into “an overriding review of the child’s welfare as the paramount consideration, directed by the statutory checklist insofar as appropriate”.

While suggesting this discipline, Thorpe LJ stressed that he did not wish to diminish the importance that the Court of Appeal has consistently attached to giving “great weight” to “the emotional and psychological well being of the primary carer” when evaluating the welfare of the child.

In the Court of Appeal case of Re G (Children) (Removal from Jurisdiction), the mother successfully appealed against a dismissal of her application to permanently remove her children to Argentina, her place of origin. Thorpe LJ held that the first instance decision had distinctly failed to give a proper assessment of the emotional impact a refusal would have on the mother as the primary carer. He greatly emphasised the notion of transference of unhappiness from the primary carer to the child in the event of a refusal to relocate.

Although the mother was granted permission to return to her homeland, the Court of Appeal laid down a number of consequential issues to be agreed between the parties before the mother relocated. These included arrangements for contact, investigation into the means of how a contact order could be mirrored in Argentina, the children’s enrolment into schools, funding for education, cessation of the mother’s periodical payments and the costs of travel.

These cases are difficult and painful for all concerned but travel between countries is an important part of everyday life and some would say that unrestricted movement from country to country is fundamental to our concept of freedom and an essential human right.

Further afield

What of the approach in other jurisdictions? The approach of the English courts is not so different from that of the Australian and US courts. In some Scandinavian countries, notably Sweden, it is difficult to obtain the court’s permission to relocate, but such countries are much more likely to stress the importance of both parents in a child’s life. Notably these countries tend to favour shared residence arrangements and have far greater parity of maternity and paternity rights, including leave following the birth of a child.

In New Zealand, the courts have declined to follow the guidance in Payne by drawing attention to the child’s welfare as the paramount principle in relocation cases and refusing to place too great an emphasis on the psychological and emotional well being of the primary carer.

Essential reading for those lawyers and parents involved in opposing a leave to remove application is the Reunite research published in July 2009 and available on the group’s website. The research focuses on the difficulties in enforcing contact orders abroad by mirror orders, funding contact, the loss of the wider familial relationship for the child and the long-term effect of the loss on establishing important relationships. The research recognises that losing the continuity and familiarity of relationships causes grief for children (which is akin to bereavement) and that such loss may cause profound and adverse personality changes in the long term.

In conclusion the research itself calls for further research into the outcome and affect of relocation on children and an amendment to the welfare checklist in the Children Act 1989 to avoid the vagueness of the ‘welfare test’ in line with the Australian system which considers the benefit to a child of a meaningful relationship with both parents and the practical difficulty and expense of spending time with each following relocation.

Momentum for change

Perhaps unsurprisingly there is now considerable momentum for a change of law in this area. In Re D (Children) . Lord Justice Wall acknowledged the criticisms of Payne and stated: “There has been considerable criticism of Payne v Payne in certain quarters, and there is a perfectly respectable argument for the proposition that it places too great an emphasis on the wishes and feelings of the relocating parent, and ignores or relegates the harm done of children by permanent breach of the relationship which children have with the left behind parent.”

In March 2010 there was a meeting of family judges from all over the world in Washington DC and a Declaration on International Family Relocation was made. Part of this states: “The best interests of a child should be the paramount consideration. Therefore, determination should be made without any presumptions for or against relocation.”

Mostyn J referred to the declaration in the recent case of Re AR (A Child: Relocation). Here, a French mother sought leave to permanently remove a five-year-old child to Troyes in the Champagne area of north east France. The English father applied for shared residence. The child had only French nationality. The father had parental responsibility by virtue of being named on the child’s birth certificate.

Mostyn J granted the father shared residence and refused to allow the mother leave to remove. In calling for a review of Payne, Mostyn J went further and said: “If one were to draw up a hierarchy of human rights protected by the convention, I would have thought that very near to the top would be the right of a child, while he or she is growing up, to have a meaningful participation by both of his parents in his upbringing.

“Although this is (strangely) not explicitly spelt out in the text it must be implicit in the notion of the right to a family life. Recognition of the existence of this very obvious and critically important right is sometimes, so it seems to me, lost in the relocation cases.”

A recent case to be considered at the time when Payne is being criticised is Re J v S (Leave to Remove). Here, a Japanese mother sought permission to return to Japan with the two boys aged eight and ten. The Swedish father sought to extend the length of the weekend contact available to him. The parties had lived in London for more than 20 years and following divorce the mother lived in London with the children and the father had alternate weekend contact. The children alternated their holidays between Japan and Sweden. The mother spoke Japanese to the children and her mother stayed for six to eight months every year.

Eleanor King J granted the mother permission to relocate to Japan. However, it could be said that the case is extremely fact-specific given that the mother suffered a gastro-intestinal illness with vomiting, depression and anxiety. King J accepted expert medical evidence that if the mother were refused permission to return to Japan she would suffer extreme ill health requiring long-term medical and psychological support and this would be harmful to the children’s welfare.

It was held that the welfare of the children was paramount and taking into account the questions in Payne she decided that the mother’s application was genuine and realistic. While she accepted that the father’s opposition was also genuine, it appears that the detrimental effect on the mother’s medical condition was a decisive factor in the balancing exercise such that Eleanor King J accepted the effect of refusing the mother’s application would have been so harmful to the mother that it meant it was in the children’s best interests to grant permission.
Relocation cases are accepted as difficult and painful for all concerned and, despite recent criticism, the principles established in Payne still live on and it remains the leading relocation authority. However, recently reported cases along with the Reunite research and the Declaration on International Family Relocation demonstrates there isnow considerable drive for change in this area of law.

We submit that an emphasis on the wishes and feelings of the relocating parent, even with practical proposals, may now no longer be the deciding factor in relocation cases.

The presumption that the applicant’s realistic and genuine proposals are compatible with the child’s welfare is being increasingly questioned and we submit that we are moving to a time when leave to remove may no longer be carer’s prerogative.

If you wish to apply to remove the child from the jurisdiction or to oppose such an application consult the experts.

To learn more consult the experts – For more information or a free legal opinion telephone 020-7381-8111 (24 hour service) or email law@rhplaw.co.uk.

Christmas contact

Here are some of the factors and common topics that arise.

1. Telling the children. If this is the first year that the parents are separated, how will the separation be explained to the children before contact issues are resolved?

2. How old are the children? Toddlers compared to teenagers are going to need different lengths and frequencies of contact that need to be considered. When the children get older should there be trigger points for reviewing the contact schedule over Christmas? e.g. after a year.

3. How would the children like contact to be over Christmas? The parents need to decide the final contact arrangements, but it is important when the children are old enough to find out their views. The children can also be part of the mediation process if both parents consent to this. Everything said to the mediator will remain confidential apart from what the children want to be passed back to the parents. The welfare and wishes of the children is of central concern to the judge.

4. Other relatives. What are the grandparents’ and other relatives views for contact who may want to see their grandchildren over the Christmas period?

5. Travelling abroad. If one parent is to travel abroad, ensure that the other parent will have a telephone number or contact details so that they can have telephone or even Skype contact on Christmas day.

6. Alternate Christmas contact. A lot of families now like to spend Christmas abroad. The other parent’s consent is needed.

7. Keeping the other parent informed. The Christmas period has a lot of festive events, religious ceremonies and activities. Try to agree how far in advance parents should communicate with each other, so that if there is a clash of events a compromise can be reached.

8. Breaking the Christmas period into slots of days. Sometimes one parent has the children for contact on Christmas Eve and Boxing Day while the other parent has contact Christmas Day and other days. Or one parent has contact over Christmas and the other parent then has contact over New Year. This then rotates yearly.

9. Having Christmas together. Sometimes the resident parent agrees that the non-resident parent can spend Christmas Day at the resident parent’s house, so that both parents have contact with their children on Christmas Day when the presents are opened.

10. Morning and evening contact on Christmas Day. One parent has contact with the children in the morning of Christmas Day and the other parent has contact in the afternoon.

11. Shared Christmas contact. If there is a shared residence order in place and contact cannot be divided 50/50 over the festive period, it is explored whether there are other points in the year, where more contact can be granted so that there is a balance of contact between both of them.

12. Good communication between parents. Is this best done by email, phone or face to face where there is an acceptance by both parents that over this busy period flexibility is needed? Good communication can also work if the parents agree to arrange a neutral point for contact handovers, agree an agenda of items in advance, looking to the future rather than to the past, and agreeing to a time limit for discussions so that everything talked about is focused.

13. Keeping the other parent informed. If there is important information that the other parent needs to know – for example new dietary needs or their general routine – write this down and keep the other parent informed so that the child’s transition is not disrupted between parents.

14. Business partnership. If communication is strained and difficult can you liaise with your former partner as you would with a work colleague? And if things do become heated find a way to calm down before continuing discussions?

15. Passport and travel. Discussions centre on giving consent for passport applications, and, if the children are travelling abroad, on consent being given for how long they agree to them being outside of the jurisdiction. If there are child abduction or relocation concerns seek legal advice immediately.

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16 Court If the matter of Christmas contact goes to court, the hearing date may be listed sometimes after several weeks by which time Christmas may have come and gone, or, if the plan was to go abroad, travel will be a lot more expensive, so plan in good time.

If you have a contact problem at Chistmas or any time, consult the experts – For more information or a free legal opinion telephone 020-7381-8111 (24 hour service) or email law@rhplaw.co.uk.

OUT WITH THE OLD

Family Procedure Rules

Came into effect on 6 April 2011

Some familiar phrases will be consigned to history, with the most notable changes being:

  • ‘Ancillary relief’ becomes ‘financial order’;
  • Divorce proceedings become ‘matrimonial proceedings’
  • A petition will simply become an ‘application’

Costs

The presumption that each party pay their own costs is excluded from applications for maintenance pending suit/interim periodical payments.

This should therefore mean that the losing party in such applications will be facing the risk of cost order. Applications to vary maintenance pending suit/interim periodical payments orders are not included within this exception.

Mediation.

Apart from certain exceptions, such as applications for enforcement in Children Act proceedings, or applications for avoidance of disposition orders within financial proceedings, there must be compliance with the pre-action protocol prior to instigating proceedings, which require the applicant to arrange mediation.

If the applicant then makes an application to the court, they should at the same time file a completed family mediation information and assessment form, confirming the attendance at a mediation information and assessment meeting, or giving the reasons for not attending.

There are circumstances in which an applicant is not expected to attend a mediation information and assessment meeting.

Those include domestic abuse; the dispute concerns financial issues and one party is bankrupt; the whereabouts of the other party is unknown to the applicant; the application is being made without notice to the other party; the prospective application is urgent (which includes a risk to the life, liberty or physical safety of the applicant, or any delay in attending mediation could cause significant harm to a child, risk of miscarriage of justice or unreasonable hardship to the applicant); or that no mediators are available to conduct an initial meeting within 15 working days, subject to certain provisos.

These rules will have a big impact on divorce and children practice.

To learn more consult the experts – For more information or a free legal opinion telephone 020-7381-8111 (24 hour service) or email law@rhplaw.co.uk.

Mediation information assessment meetings – MIAM

Frequently asked questions.

Compulsory mediation meetings apply to anyone who wishes to apply for a children or financial order in the family courts. Each party to attend a mediation information assessment meeting (MIAM) with an approved mediator.

What is a MIAM?

A MIAM is a confidential meeting between each of the divorcing spouses or separating cohabiting couples which takes place separately with a mediator who can deal with the issues and is qualified to carry out the MIAMs. The hope is that early information and advice about mediation will help to bring down the number of court applications which do not need to be made as the parties progress to resolving their issues with the assistance of a mediator.

What happens during a MIAM?

The background circumstances are discussed, and the process of mediation in the context of the separation is explained. It then considers whether mediation would be appropriate as a means of resolving potential disputes which would otherwise need to be settled by the courts.

Will a MIAM be cheaper than the court fees?

The fee is at the discretion of the mediator, but it is likely to be cheaper than the court issue fee of £200 for children applications and £240 for applications concerning family finances.

Is mediation compulsory?

No, but if you are making the application to court for children or financial matters then you will need to attend a MIAM. After the MIAM either party can opt out of the mediation process if it feels it is not appropriate to continue by mediation.

The protocol expects any respondent to have attended a MIAM if invited to do so, and at the first hearing the court will ask if the parties have considered mediation. The court will take into account any failure of not complying with the protocol and can decide to refer the parties to a meeting with a mediator before the proceedings can continue further.

Who is not expected to attend?

MIAMs are not required:

  • if there is a history of intimidation or domestic violence in the relationship;
  • if the dispute is about money and either of the spouses or former partners are bankrupt;
  • if the spouse or former partner cannot be traced;
  • if three mediators within 15 miles of the home have been contacted and it is not possible to get an appointment with any of them within 15 working days;
  • when the order which would be sought is about a child who is already involved with social services because of concerns for protection;
  • if one party is applying to court without notice;
  • for cases involving emergency injunctions; or
  • where the respondent refuses to attend the information session.

The protocol does not apply to proceedings for enforcement, to protect financial assets or to protect a child.

What form will be completed by the mediator?

If the parties wish to proceed with hearings at court rather than continue by mediation, form FM1 must be completed by the mediator. This form will need to be presented to court by instructing solicitors or the parties themselves if acting in person.

Is a MIAM compulsory for a divorce petition?

It is only compulsory for children and financial applications (unless one falls within one of the above exclusions), not for straightforward divorce applications.

How does one find a MIAM mediator?

Contact the Community Legal Advice Helpline (0845 345 4345) or at the Direct Gov website. The Family Mediation Council (FMC) will only approve family mediators who have the agreed minimum requirements which can be found online.

Are all mediators legally qualified?

No, at least 25 per cent of mediators come from a counseling background.

Will the case be referred back to the same solicitor?

The mediator will usually refer the client back to the referring solicitor in the event that mediation is not chosen, or is commenced but is unsuccessful for any reason, or an agreement reached in mediation requires a consent order, or if the mediator recommends the parties seek legal advice on certain points.

What issues can mediation resolve?

  • Who will start the divorce.
  • How to divide finances.
  • Child contact arrangements.
  • Child residence.
  • Grandparents’ contact.

Why mediate rather than litigate?

  • In matters of child disputes, mediation helps to maintain communication and allows the couple to continue to cooperate as parents.
  • Mediation reduces hostility, bitterness and misunderstanding.
  • Mediation focuses on the child’s needs for parents to cooperate as much as possible.
  • Mediation avoids a sense of ‘winners’ and ‘losers’ by reaching an agreed solution which will have some benefit for all.

What documents can the mediator prepare?

If an agreement is reached, it can be documented in a memorandum of understanding (MoU) if the parties so require. This covers all the issues such as what will happen to the former matrimonial home, residence and children’s contact patterns with the parents and the overall financial settlement. Summary of financial information – the disclosure of both parties is documented and signed by each party and the mediator.

Is the MoU binding?

No. If one wants the financial agreement to be made legally binding one should take the agreement to a solicitor who can then draft what has been agreed into a consent order.

Can mediators meet the children?

Yes, there is additional training which mediators can do so that they can then carry out direct consultations with children. The consultation is done alone with the child. Where the child is old enough to express their wishes and feelings and if both parties agree it can help the process if the child explains to the mediator what they would like in terms of contact and living arrangements. The discussions between the mediator and the child are then later reported back to the parents.

Can there be more than one mediator present in the room?

Yes, it is common for mediators to co-mediate. Some mediation practices such as Family Mediation In Action are able to offer a male-female mediator team where required.

Does mediation work?

It depends what separating couples want to get out of the mediation sessions. There tends to be between two and five joint sessions. If the parties want to try to agree how to divorce amicably, decide how to divide their financial assets, and, if there are children, where they will live and how contact will work, using mediation can sometimes be a better forum than going to court. But not every case will work or fit in with mediation. Where children are young, agreements regarding children can be reviewed in further mediation after a few months or years, as the original agreements will probably need to be updated the older the children get.

If you have a dispute, involving money or children, or are contemplating a divorce or separation, consult the experts –  For more information or a free legal opinion telephone 020-7381-8111 (24 hour service) or email law@rhplaw.co.uk.

Mirror Orders

W v W (Minor) (Mirror Order) [2011] EWCA CIV 703

The case concerns the nature of the Mirror order, the jurisdiction of the High court to make one, and the consequential effect of one.

Where a parent has a final Order affecting children abroad, and wishes to visit England/ Wales, a wise precaution is a Mirror Order obtained in England/Wales.
This is an Order to confirm the regime laid down by the foreign court Order during on a visit to the UK.

A parent however must take care that the child does not become habitually resident in England and Wales, which could then give the other parent the chance to open up dual jurisdiction, and challenge the foreign Order’s application in England/ Wales.

This was the issue in this case. The mother attempted to demonstrate that because the father had applied for a Mirror Order, he was conceding jurisdiction by virtue of European law concerning jurisdiction in matrimonial matters and in matters of parental responsibility.

The Court of Appeal overruled the High Court Judge upholding the father’s position that rule 12(3) of Council Regulation (EC) 2201/2003 had not been engaged because he had not accepted jurisdiction merely by applying for a Mirror Order.
The Mirror Order was to uphold a foreign judgment, not to give jurisdiction in English/Welsh court.

The judgment is helpful in focusing on the need to avoid the child remaining in England and Wales for a period which could amount to habitual residence. The court did not rule on what that might be but clearly a brief visit or holiday of perhaps a month would not amount to habitual residence or presence.

Practitioners should bear in mind that the visit might become longer than planned unintentionally (illness, weather (volcanic ash?)) and to advise accordingly.

The grey area unresolved issue is the length of time that the child can safely remain in England/Wales without thereby granting jurisdiction.

A thought out and well worded letter to the other party prior to visiting England/Wales setting out the plans and specifically saying that jurisdiction is not to be granted if for any reason the visit was extended for a reason beyond the parent’s control is a good starting.

Another wise tactic is to include the foreign court Order, as specific provision saying that if the order is mirrored in foreign country, it is not intended to grants jurisdiction to that country.

Further in the application in England/Wales, it should be specifically stated that nothing in the application is designed or deemed to grant a jurisdiction to England/Wales.
There is still no clear jurisdiction to make a Mirror order, if the child is not physically present in England/Wales.

For more information or a free legal opinion telephone 020-7381-8111 (24 hour service) or email law@rhplaw.co.uk.

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HOW TO DIVORCE PROOF YOUR COMPANY

It can happen to the best of entrepreneurs. While a new business owner is putting in long hours to build a business, a marriage can fray. The next thing the owner knows, his or her spouse may be filing for divorce.

This scenario is all too common. Forty percent to 50 percent of all first marriages in the U.K. end in divorce. The divorce rate for second marriages is even higher.

For those whose marriage is in trouble or who are about to begin a divorce, a few strategies can help preserve a business. Once the divorce proceedings start, entrepreneurs won’t likely be able to implement some other legal manoeuvres that, if accomplished in happier times, could keep their business from landing in a soon-to-be ex’s possession.

A typical scenario, according to family-law lawyer Rodney Hylton-Potts is: “You get married young with no prenup and you have a £100,000 business. . . not anticipating that, 20 years later, it’s a £5 million business, and now the spouse has some stake in the growth of the business.”

If you’re not careful in a divorce, you could find your ex is your business partner — or you could be fighting to keep your enterprise from being sold to raise cash.

Or you might lose the business to your ex.

Is your marriage headed toward a breakup?

Here are seven strategies to consider if a divorce is threatened or already underway and your company is considered a joint asset.

1. Maintain good records, and keep the family’s finances separate from those of the business. “Don’t borrow out of the house account to buy company trucks.

2. Pay yourself a good salary. If you starve the family’s cash flow to build the business, a lawyer might later make the case that your ex is entitled to more of the company’s assets.

“If you paid yourself £80,000 a year instead of £300,000 and were hoping on retirement to sell the business and enjoy the proceeds together and now that’s not happening,” he says, “then your ex will want [his or her] share” of the company.

3. Fire your spouse. If your spouse is actively involved in your business, ease him or her out as soon as possible. The more prominent the ex’s role and the longer he or she worked in the business, the stronger the case a lawyer could make that this spouse helped build the enterprise and should profit from its growth.

4. Sacrifice other assets. In a divorce settlement, a couple’s total assets are added up and then divided. Try to retain 100 percent ownership of the business by forfeiting other assets instead, such as pension, the family’s home, vehicles or collectibles.

5. Get a fair valuation. Use a neutral, court-appointed valuation professional and then arrange for another outside party to review the figure before you agree to it.

6. Arrange to make any payments over time. It’s common to pay an ex for a share of a business gradually. The monthly payments can come from the business’s cash flow or a bank loan.

7. Raise capital by selling a stake. You could sell a minority stake in your business to employees through an employee stock ownership plan.. Or find an angel investor or two who will pay cash in exchange for an ownership stake.

One bright spot for entrepreneurs: It’s rare that a business ends up being sold off to satisfy a divorce settlement. That’s because it would deprive the business owner of the future income needed to pay support payments.

Preventive Moves

Take action while your relationship is still rosy and you may greatly increase your odds of surviving a divorce with your business intact.

Here are five pre-emptive strategies from attorney Jeffrey Landers that can help protect you from losing your business in a divorce.

1. Sign a prenup. If your business existed before you marry, designate it as separate property owned by only you.

2. Secure an early postnup. This is much like a prenup, except the agreement is signed after the wedding. If a postnup is done long before the marriage disintegrates, it might be useful in defining a business as separate property.

3. Place the business in a trust. This keeps the business from being counted as a marital asset as you no longer personally own it. The move also protects the value of the company’s growth.

4. Create a buy-sell agreement. It defines what happens to a business should any owner’s status change, as is the case in a divorce. The agreement might limit a spouse’s ability to acquire ownership, deprive a divorcing spouse of voting rights, or give you or other partners the right to buy at a low, preset price any interest awarded the ex.

5. Have insurance. A whole-life insurance policy that builds cash value can be liquidated to provide the funds to buy out a spouse’s share of the business, if need be

If you have a share in the company, and your marriages in difficulty talk to the experts -

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Blackmail

If you are being blackmailed perhaps by an ex-partner, girlfriend, prostitute, mother of your child etc, or by somebody who has got something on you, do not despair.

You would be probably amazed at the number of perfectly legal strategies, and tactics that can be adopted to get you out of this mess. We are very experienced and have achieved some excellent outcomes.

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Advice to unmarried couples

The myth of common law husband and wife.

The starting point is that where property is held jointly the beneficial interests follow the legal interests, without any written declaration of trust to the contrary.

However, the court can redistributed the beneficial shares unequally despite joint ownership, and unmarried couples can get some protection.

Be certain to record on file your client’s full instructions on each aspect of your advice. This is especially important where, despite your strong pleas, they have decided to ignore your advice on all of the following issues and jump without a parachute. Your partners will thank you for it should the matter reappear down the road as a potential negligence claim.

Property

Consider your intentions if you split up, and the differences between joint tenants and tenants in common.

Unmarried couples should execute a declaration of trust at the time of purchase. There is no substitute for this. The deed should state: the parties’ intentions; the purchase price and purchase costs; how much is provided from mortgage and/or capital; who provided the capital and in what proportions; how the property is to be held legally and beneficially; in what shares; what will be the trigger events for sale and who gets what in the event of sale.

Hylton- Potts can draft a deed for £295 including VAT.

Protecting assets

If unmarried couples they have assets prior to the relationship, a divorce settlement or inherited property for example, or if they plan to have children together and not marry, they should enter a cohabitation contract.

This will be helpful for the parties to set out what they intend to do during their relationship regarding contributions and what happens to the children and property in the event of separation.

Hylton- Potts can draft this for £250 including VAT

Cohabitation contract

This needs to full and frank disclosure, and evidence of this should be included in the contract which should be under deed. A piece of paper drawn up between them might be evidence of their intentions but will not be legally binding.. The contract is much wider than a declaration of trust relating to one property. It can cover all other areas such as: personal property; joint accounts and credit cards; mortgage and life policies; motor vehicles; collections; gifts; hire purchase or other finance; business interests; payment of living expenses; pension and death in service benefits.

Children

If a cohabiting couple has children only the mother will automatically have parental responsibility. The father will obtain parental responsibility if he is named on the child’s birth certificate. Otherwise both parents can enter a parental responsibility agreement. The couple should also consider the appointment of guardians for the children in their wills in the event of death.

Hylton- Potts can draft the parental responsibility for £125 including VAT. If the mother will not sign, a court order can be obtained giving the father parental responsibility for a fixed fee of £295 including VAT.

Tax and trusts

Cohabiting couples should make wills as they cannot currently benefit under the Intestacy Rules no matter how long they have lived together and even if they have had children.

Also hold their property as beneficial joint tenants so that the survivor automatically inherits the entire property.

Hylton- Potts can draft identical Wills £195 including VAT

Claims on death

Where there is no will the law will only recognise the inheritance claims of a cohabitant survivor if he or she has lived in the same household of the deceased as a dependant for at least the whole of two years preceding the death of the deceased.

There are the tax consequences of remaining unmarried when their partner dies. There is no equivalent to the spousal exemption for them on inheritance tax on any gifts made within seven years of the deceased’s death. Again this can be covered by an appropriate insurance policy. Here again provision in a will can save the day or even nomination of the survivor to receive any death in service benefits of the deceased.

If you are planning to cohabit, buying a property, or living together, or involved in a dispute with your partner consult the experts – For more information or a free legal opinion telephone 020-7381-8111 (24 hour service) or email law@rhplaw.co.uk.

10 TIPS FOR PARTING COUPLES

1. Spare-room
You can’t sleep in the spare room for ever. A sluggish housing market and falling share prices have fuelled the view that splitting up is unaffordable. Needless to say, carrying on living with your ex is usually awkward and distressing. Signs are that many couples who have stuck together are reaching breaking point. Figures from the Office for National Statistics show that divorces in England and Wales fell for several years but are on the rise again. The number of divorces in 2010, the latest year published, was 119,589, up 5 per cent on the 113,949 divorces in 2009. A big growth area is the “grey divorce”, among the over-sixties.

2. Get ready for a long slog
The economic downturn means divorcing couples are fighting harder to get their fair share of the spoils. Unravelling a couple’s intertwined affairs means the divorce process tends to take a minimum of three to four months. If you end up fighting in court expect it to take more than a year.

3. Are you better off?
It could be a good time to divorce if you are the wealthier half of a separating couple. Falling property and share prices mean that your estate will be worth less than before the downturn. Sharing half of a £500,000 estate is easier to swallow than dividing a £1 million pot. Some may accuse you of being cynical, others of simply protecting your own interests.

4. Disregard nothing
Make sure everything is up for grabs. When marriages break up couples often end up fighting over the dog and the house but forget the pension. A pension, however, can have greater value than the matrimonial home, particularly after a long marriage. If you have spent a large chunk of your marital life looking after children you may have little or no pension fund in your own name. Leaving it out of the equation means you can be left at a considerable financial disadvantage.

5. Pension sharing
Pension sharing is the favoured way of dividing a retirement fund. This involves couples splitting a pension into two new funds, and is preferred because it achieves a “clean break”. The valuation is generally provided by the pension provider, but you can get it checked by a qualified independent financial adviser or pension consultant. The two alternative approaches are called offsetting and earmarking. For further advice consult Hylton-Potts the experts.

6. Dialogue is key
Splitting up is much easier if you are on speaking terms. You will need to know what you and your former spouse’s pension and other assets are approximately worth. However, if your spouse is uncooperative there is no need to worry. Mention this to your lawyer, who can request the information from your spouse’s lawyer. If that fails, the courts have the power to demand these financial details.

7. The business
Divorcing in a downturn requires more imagination. This is particularly the case if you own a business. As with other assets, it is usual for the value of a business to be split on divorce. In the past, a non-working spouse would be typically offered cash raised by taking out a bank loan. As banks have become less free with their funds, it is often no longer possible. Where a business is involved you may have to accept that there cannot be a clear split. The non-working spouse may be required to take the value in shares to be cashed in later.

8. Prenups
Prenuptial agreements are more likely to be upheld. Post-nuptial agreements are also likely to be accepted if they are fair.

9. The cohabiting myth
Many people assume if a couple have been living together for a year or more they automatically have the same rights as a legally married couple. This is not true. However, that does not mean that you do not have any rights when a relationship breaks down. You are unprotected unless you contributed in specific financial terms or beneficial terms by, say, spending money doing up a property. An oral agreement or a written contract will also be upheld. Children are also entitled to financial support

10. The final tip

IF YOU ARE SEPARATING CONSULT THE EXPERTS EARLY.

For more information or a free legal opinion telephone 020-7381-8111 (24 hour service) or email law@rhplaw.co.uk.

Harassment/bullying

If you are being harassed or bullied in a relationship, or in the work place, look no further.
The Protection Against Harassment Act and other laws, if properly applied are powerful weapons.
You are not alone. We can help.

Consult the experts – For more information or a free legal opinion telephone 020-7381-8111 (24 hour service) or email law@rhplaw.co.uk.

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10th February 2010

Could Alex ever adopt Pete’s kids?

Leading family lawyer Rodney Hyton-Potts explains why Pete will not lose his children. Read the full article here

 

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